Quitter: Closing the Gap Between Your Day Job and Your Dream Job by Jon Acuff
Have you ever felt caught between the tension of a day job and a dream job? That gap between what you have to do and what you'd love to do?
At first I thought I was the only one who felt that way, but then I started to talk to people and realized we're becoming the "I'm, but" generation. When we talk about what we do for a living we inevitably say, "I'm a teacher, but I want to be an artist." "I'm a CPA, but I'd love to start my own business."
"I'm a _____, but I want to be a ______."
All too often, we hear that dreaming big means you quit your day job, sell everything you own, and move to Guam. But what if there were a different way?
What if you could blow up your dream without blowing up your life?
What if you could go for broke without going broke?
What if you could start today?
What if you already have everything you need to begin?
From figuring out what your dream is to quitting in a way that exponentially increases your chance of success, Quitter is full of inspiring stories and actionable advice. This book is based on 12 years of cubicle living and my true story of cultivating a dream job that changed my life and the world in the process.
It's time to close the gap between your day job and your dream job.
It's time to be a Quitter.
Ummm do I really know the answer to this question?
"I'm a_________, but I want to be a ________."
There are so many answers I could give to the 2nd blank... but there isn't really just one answer for me though... If you don't know the answer, the author suggested your could ask yourself these questions:
- What is your dream?
- What's something that makes you feel alive that you wish you were doing?
- What do you hope is true of your life in 6 months? A year? 3 years?
- Do I love doing __ enough to do it for free?
- When I _____ does time feel different?
- Do I enjoy doing _____ regardless of the opinions of other people?
- If I pursue __ and only my life changes, is that enough?
- Is this the first time I've loved _ or is this part of a bigger pattern in my life?
One thing that I have always loved all these years without fail (while other hobbies come and go), is reading. But hey can you be a professional reader and get paid for it? :)
At times, the book feels a bit repetitive. And some of the materials I already know from my own experience, but I guess it's good to read as a reminder. And if you don't know, then it has some good takeaway.
Some insights for me:
- Don't forget your family when you pursue your dream> E.g. I have to work like crazy right now, so my family can be better off later - the problem is that kids don't believe in later, kids believe in right now.
- "If I really wanted to", "It would be easier if..." are such toxic phrases. They really do hold you back
- One idea I really want to try - email yourself about what you have learned today as a warning to your future self - set the time so that the email will be delivered a year from today. I mean, I have read people writing a letter to their younger self about what they wish they knew at the time. But since we can't go back in time, why not write to your future self so that you won't repeat your mistake, or remind your future self about something you think is important today?
Note - The book was borrowed from the library.
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